But, if you are so concerned, a light douching a few hours before hand should ease your concerns. Our stomachs are very sensitive to stress and the anxiety that can be produced is more than sufficient to upset our bowels and release them during the pressure of intercourse. It is the fear of feces during anal sex that actually causes accidents. Not every sexual activity is for everyone, and that is perfectly fine. Nor, should those who practice this fetish be shamed. This is different from standard anal sex and the two should not be automatically conflated. Of course, by now, you know that there are some people, both male and female, gay and straight, that enjoy and engage in scat play. Just as straight men must develop an adult reaction to menstrual blood being a possibility during sex, gay men must do the same regarding feces. The anus is not a vagina and it is unreasonable to expect it to behave like one, with all of the benefits, but none of the drawbacks. But, a further reality about gay male anal sex is that shit happens so clean it up. We discuss this very issue in our article on douching and why it is not as necessary as gay males are led to believe.
“People tend not to believe it when we share this information, so take a toy and test the landing strip.
In reality, if you eat healthily and get enough fiber for regular, bulky stools, this should be enough to keep the anal canal clean for play. Evan Goldstein, CEO of Bespoke Surgical, explains that stool actually hangs out higher in your body, above the anus and rectum in a section known as the sigmoid colon. Of course we are talking about defecation.ĭr. Not seeing it as a necessary part and function of the male body, rather as something to be disgusted by. Maybe it stems from an unhealthy view of the anus and rectal cavity. This act is seen as dirty and wrong by both the religious and non-faithful. For many people, gay and straight, the entirety around being gay isn’t just about sex, but specifically about anal sex. With a bit of luck, we might even be able to give you information to push back against those promoting these lies.
We at GMJ think it is time that we take some time to fight back against the myths that plague our community, but may also fuel some of the fears our brothers have about sex and their OWN bodies.īy using facts, biology and logic we can debunk all of these myths as well as ease the concerns many of you may have about anal sex. Of course, most center around anal sex, which is still the dark path that causes so much confusion, disgust and lies. With this has also come numerous myths about our sexual activities, always created by those who are not gay males, to instill fear and shame into both our community and straights. Even those from the most liberal and progressive of households still have to contend with a hostile society that fears and hates them. We were all born gay and male but none of us grew up in a world that totally embraced both our gender and our sexual orientation.